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		<title>7 Money saving myths busted</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 13:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From our friends at SmartyPig come some great tips on savings &#8211; and some savings myths you may have fallen for. I know I have been guilty of a couple of these! From : 7 Myths Busted to Help You Save More Bulk buying always saves you money: It is true that unit price of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="posterous_autopost">From our friends at SmartyPig come some great tips on savings &#8211; and some savings myths you may have fallen for. I know I have been guilty of a couple of these!</div>
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<div class="posterous_autopost">From : <a href="http://blog.smartypig.com/read/saving-money-7-myths-busted-to-help-you-save-more/">7 Myths Busted to Help You Save More</a></div>
<div class="posterous_autopost"><strong>Bulk buying always saves you money:</strong> It is true that unit price of bulk buys will always be cheaper. But the temptation of saving a huge amount with bulk buys usually lures one to purchase more than what is required. If you ultimately do not use what you purchase, then where is the saving?</div>
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		<title>Montier: Seven Immutable Laws of Investing</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Mar 2011 03:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don’t-walk-run to read GMO’s James Montier Seven Immutable Laws of Investing: 1. Always insist on a margin of safety 2. This time is never different 3. Be patient and wait for the fat pitch 4. Be contrarian 5. Risk is the permanent loss of capital, never a number 6. Be leery of leverage 7. Never [...]]]></description>
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<p>Don’t-walk-run to read GMO’s James Montier Seven Immutable Laws of Investing:</p>
<blockquote><p>1. Always insist on a margin of safety<br />  2. This time is never different<br />  3. Be patient and wait for the fat pitch<br />  4. Be contrarian<br />  5. Risk is the permanent loss of capital, never a number<br />  6. Be leery of leverage<br />  7. Never invest in something you don’t understand</p>
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<p>The full post is found at <a href="https://www.gmo.com/America/MyHome/" target="_blank">GMO’s site</a>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">&gt;</span></p>
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<div class="posterous_quote_citation">via <a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/TheBigPicture/~3/v6qB4zd1TU0/">feedproxy.google.com</a></div>
<p>Always painful to hear at the start of your investment journey &#8211; because they sound pretty obvious, or worse yet (I&#8217;ve been guilty!) one or more &#8220;don&#8217;t apply to me!&#8221; Take heed, these are fundamental rules!</p>
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		<title>@TEDxMelbourne, 27/11/10 10:02 AM</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2010 15:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[TEDxMelbourne (@TEDxMelbourne)27/11/10 10:02 AMHow to give your money away more effectively [@HarvardBiz]: http://bit.ly/hq8VPl]]></description>
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		<title>Interesting moneyboxes</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2010 02:14:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On the weekend we were showing my brother in-law around St Kilda (he was visiting from Sydney.) Naturally the excellent craft market caught our attention, spread out overlooking the beach the location is amazing. One stall caught my eye &#8211; it was selling moneyboxes that were carved from wood, with a clear plastic window to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='posterous_autopost'>On the weekend we were showing my brother in-law around St Kilda (he was visiting from Sydney.) Naturally the excellent craft market caught our attention, spread out overlooking the beach the location is amazing. One stall caught my eye &#8211; it was selling moneyboxes that were carved from wood, with a clear plastic window to see inside.
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<div>Now I&#39;d love to show you a photo but the stall-holder refused permission to take a pic, which is her right after all. These were really something &#8211; a nice warm deep wooden colour with a generous opening in the top to slide the money in. There was one shaped like a Melbourne tram, quite a few animals &#8211; many Australian natives of course.</div>
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<div>What are some unusual moneyboxes you&#39;ve seen?</div>
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		<title>Dollarsmart needs more support &#8211; FPA</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 08:03:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Financial Planning Association (FPA) has acknowledged that its program for raising the financial literacy of Australian students, DollarSmart, needs more industry support.Â [...] Rebecca Murray, FPA general manager of marketing and membership [...]Â acknowledged that not all schools have taken up the FPAâ€™s offer for planners to teach financial literacy in the classrooms, despite it running [...]]]></description>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px;">The Financial Planning Association (FPA) has acknowledged that its program for raising the financial literacy of Australian students, DollarSmart, needs more industry support.Â [...] Rebecca Murray, FPA general manager of marketing and membership [...]Â acknowledged that not all schools have taken up the FPAâ€™s offer for planners to teach financial literacy in the classrooms, despite it running since 2003.</p>
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px;">- <a href="http://www.moneymanagement.com.au/news/dollarsmart-needs-more-support">Dollarsmart Needs More Support</a>, via http://www.moneymanagement.com.au/</p>
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<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px;">What is <a href="http://www.fpa.asn.au/FPA_Content.aspx?Doc_id=1017">Dollarsmart</a> you ask? The FPA say &#8216;Dollarsmart is A financial toolkit for young Australians&#8217; that examines six key aspects of financial literacy : planning, budgeting, saving &amp; investing, credit &amp; debt, insurance and finally study &amp; work. This is an amazing free resource aimed at Australians available as a series of PDFs, a complete workbook in PDF or you can even order it on a CD.</p>
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		<title>You canâ€™t out-frugal your way to being rich!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 17:14:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the reasons my kids get their pocket money only every now and then is that there isn&#8217;t always enough money to go around. I have always maintained a very tight grip on my wallet, which is great &#8211; as far as it goes. Once more I refer to the great Ramit, here he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the reasons my kids get their pocket money only every now and then is that there isn&#8217;t always enough money to go around. I have always maintained a very tight grip on my wallet, which is great &#8211; as far as it goes. Once more I refer to the great Ramit, here he is <a href="http://manvsdebt.com/earn-more-money/">guest posting on the Man vs Debt</a> blog :</p>
<blockquote><p>to make 2010 the Year of Earning More. The past 7 months have been dedicated to helping people earn more money by earning more on the side, and the response so far has been massive. Hundreds of thousands of people read, commented, and Tweeted and otherwise chimed in on earning more. Everyone wants to make more money.</p>
<p>Great enthusiasm &mdash; but there&rsquo;s just one thing wrong with this&hellip;</p>
<p><strong>Most people who say they WANT to earn more&hellip; never will.</strong></p>
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<p>I have been as guilty of this as the next person. Take a look at this blog &#8211; it has been almost six months since my last post! This is a project to earn and learn (as my daughter would say &#8211; that&#8217;s a programme she is doing at school this term!) However I have managed to spend six months waffling about a new webhost, which plugins should I run and even questioning the very name of this project! All well and good points to consider for an hour or two, but this is silly.</p>
<p>My challenge to you, to all of us, is to get started on earning those extra dollars that mean our children can have regular pocket money! What are you going to try first?</p>
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		<title>Would you give your 16 year old a credit card?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:33:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An &#8216;expert&#8217; in Chicago says teens as young as 16 years of age should be given the chance to charge (i.e. to have their own credit card.) Surely this is a joke? Sadly no, it is a story from Fox News in Chicago. What the, Fox? There is a reason that Obama has legislated against [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An &#8216;expert&#8217; in Chicago says teens as young as 16 years of age should be given the chance to charge (i.e. to have their own credit card.) Surely this is a joke? Sadly no, it is <a href="http://www.myfoxchicago.com/dpp/news/metro/20100309-expert-give-16-year-olds-a-credit-card">a story from Fox News in Chicago</a>.</p>
<p>What the, Fox?</p>
<p><span id="more-87"></span>There is a reason that Obama has <a href="http://www.newuniversity.org/2010/03/news/obama-creates-credit-card-regulations-affecting-students/">legislated against some of the predatory practices</a> of credit card issuers in the US. Kids and credit aren&#8217;t a good mix. Hell, credit and just about everybody isn&#8217;t a really good idea, but we jump in anyway.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s the problem you ask? Try this statistic out : &#8220;84 percent of college students have at least one credit card, with their average balances totaling more than $3,000&#8243; &#8211; reports <a href="http://www.cavalierdaily.com/2010/03/03/un-debt-edly-wrong/">The Cavalier Daily.</a> How did they get these cards into the hands of most college students? <a href="http://www.findcollegecards.com/blog/how-credit-card-companies-lure-students/">By giving away free stuff (like tshirts &amp; pizza)</a>, which is always a honeypot for a student.</p>
<p>The Credit CARD act :</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;prevents people below the age of 21 from getting credit cards without proof of a stable income or an employed co-signer 21 years-old or older&#8221; &#8211; <a href="http://www.newuniversity.org/2010/03/news/obama-creates-credit-card-regulations-affecting-students/">New University, Obama Creates Credit Card Regulations, Affecting Students</a></p></blockquote>
<p>Back to the story &#8211; who is the expert? <a href="http://people.forbes.com/profile/mellody-l-hobson/27262">Mellody Hobson</a> of Ariel Capital Management. According to this Forbes profile she is a director at Dreamworks, Estee Lauder, Starbucks as well as being the work at investment management firm Ariel.</p>
<div id="attachment_95" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 140px"><a href="http://www.arielinvestments.com/content/blogcategory/72/1065/"><img class="size-full wp-image-95" title="Mellody Hobson" src="http://goldengoo.se/wp/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Hobson_Mellody_Web.png" alt="Mellody Hobson" width="130" height="130" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Mellody Hobson</p></div>
<p>From her perspective, I can imagine she meets many people of above average financial intelligence. For those who can responsibly use credit to build a good credit score it may be sensible to start on credit as early as sixteen years old.</p>
<p>For the rest of us, which means you and I, my feeling is that we are better off without the temptation. Read<br />
<a href="http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/blog/the-28000-question-why-are-we-all-hypocrites-about-weddings/">this article on the cost of weddings from Ramit&#8217;s I will teach you to be rich blog</a>, it is a great read on how we really are likely to be part of the majority who do not have our finances in order. In this case, remember, fully 84% of college students are carrying an average balance of $3,000 on their cards. Are you certain your 16 year old will be able to stay so far under that average <strong>three thousand dollar</strong> debt load?</p>
<p>As a parent I feel the urge to &#8216;do something&#8217; to help my kids along. Fortunately mine are not near 16 yet, so the credit card isn&#8217;t an issue. What would I do instead? Perhaps along the lines of the &#8216;Bank of Dad&#8217; (where you create your own high interest bank at home on a spreadsheet to encourage savings) but allowing the kids to borrow money at punishing interest rates. In this way they can experience how fast the debt can spiral out of control without &#8216;real world&#8217; consequences of starting adult life with a maxed out credit card. The book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743204808?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=childsinvesin-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0743204808">The First National Bank of Dad: The Best Way to Teach Kids About Money</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=childsinvesin-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0743204808" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is available at Amazon.</p>
<p>Credit cards for kids? Just say &#8220;No!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Conflicting advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 13:46:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our ultimate goal here is to discover an easy way to grown our very own Golden Goose, one that consistently lays golden eggs. By golden eggs, what I mean is a secure and steady income for us down the track by selling the eggs, not the Goose. [Att Technorati: 3A65KHWDYSSW ] This is a noble [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our ultimate goal here is to discover an easy way to grown our very own Golden Goose, one that consistently lays golden eggs. By golden eggs, what I mean is a secure and steady income for us down the track by selling the eggs, not the Goose. <span style="color: #ffffff;">[Att Technorati: 3A65KHWDYSSW ]</span></p>
<p>This is a noble cause, to be sure, and there&#8217;s no shortage of people out there with all manner of advice. There is advice on how to make money, invest like a pro, beat the market, hedge, trade and imitate others who&#8217;ve made it big. It can all get a bit confusing.<br />
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A case in point &#8211; here&#8217;s an article from the respected financial journal Forbes magazine:</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://www.forbes.com/2009/09/29/forbes-400-lampert-zuckerberg-rich-list-09-billionaire-clusters.html"><strong>A Recipe For Riches</strong></a><br />
Want to become a tech titan or hedge fund tycoon? Up your chances by dropping out of college or going to Harvard [...]</p></blockquote>
<p>Can you see the problem here? The very first paragraph of this article suggests in their recipe for riches two simple steps. One &#8211; drop our of college (university) and Two &#8211; go to Harvard (a college, or university!) What? So to make it onto the <a href="http://www.forbes.com/lists/2009/54/rich-list-09_The-400-Richest-Americans_Rank.html">Forbes 400 Rich List</a> all you need do is simultaneously drop out of college and get a degree from one of the top institutions in America.</p>
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<p>To be fair Forbes were analysing the list looking for trends. What they found were groups on the list who had either dropped out or gone through Harvard. Nonetheless it serves me as an example of the many pieces of conflicting advice that are offered to the novice investor.</p>
<p>All this brings me to the number two person on the rich list. Warren Buffet, who is known as the Oracle of Omaha. Warren is clearly the most successful investor in the world, given the next investor on the list is George Soros at number 15!</p>
<p>What advice does Mr Buffet give to aspiring investors? You can read this many times in his <a href="http://www.berkshirehathaway.com/letters/letters.html">letters to shareholders</a>, but it is very simple.</p>
<p>Invest regularly in low cost index funds.</p>
<p>Simple.</p>
<p>In fact this message is worth hearing, so I&#8217;ve made it a favourite on the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/GoldenGoose8">GoldenGoose8 YouTube Channel</a> as well as making it the Featured Video for this blog.</p>
<p>On my personal blog I wrote a couple of years ago on this topic, <a href="http://adogsbreakfast.wordpress.com/2007/09/12/coffehouse-investor-in-australia/">Coffeehouse investor in Australia</a> which was really some links to information on index funds and their cousin exchange traded funds. Some good reading is available at the ASX <a href="http://www.asx.com.au/products/etfs_etcs/index.htm">http://www.asx.com.au/products/etfs_etcs/index.htm</a>; also Neerav has a long running post called <a href="http://www.bhatt.id.au/blog/index-share-funds-lower-fees-reliable-growth-less-volatility/">Index Fund: lower fees, reliable growth, less volatility.</a></p>
<p>So in summary our strategy to grow our own Golden Goose is to :</p>
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<li>Save money (spend less than you earn / pay yourself first)</li>
<li>Invest regularly in low cost index funds</li>
<li>Teach your kids how to do the same</li>
<li>Repeat</li>
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<p>Join me on this journey &#8211; I&#8217;ve been buying the <a href="http://www.spdrs.com.au/etf/fund/fund_detail_STW.html">ASX 200 SPDR</a> this year for my Golden Goose. My kids have been investing in a high yield bank account and are nearly ready to buy the SPDRs as well. What will your next step be?</p>
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		<title>Feeling resentful? The cure is to be thankful.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 11:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[â€œHave an Attitude of Gratitudeâ€ â€œThe greatest of sins is ingratitudeâ€ â€œIf you donâ€™t feel gratitude, youâ€™ll feel resentmentâ€ Our North American friends have just celebrated (or survived!) another Thanksgiving holiday. This is one tradition from that part of the world that we could all take to heart. Why is this idea so important? Why [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">â€œHave an Attitude of Gratitudeâ€<br />
â€œThe greatest of sins is ingratitudeâ€<br />
â€œIf you donâ€™t feel gratitude, youâ€™ll feel resentmentâ€</p>
<p>Our North American friends have just celebrated (or survived!) another Thanksgiving holiday. This is one tradition from that part of the world that we could all take to heart.</p>
<p>Why is this idea so important? Why talk about it here on the Golden Goose? (Aside from making the Goose nervous in case this is the year someone decides to switch from turkey!)<br />
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This is what I think. When you live your life with this so called â€œAttitude of Gratitudeâ€ it means that you take a moment, from time to time, to really <strong>appreciate what you already have</strong>.</p>
<p>That can be hard to do, especially at this time of year with a tidal wave of retail catalogues pouring in the door. It is all too easy to get lost in a mindset of â€œIâ€™ll be happy when I get a new [gadget, pair of shoes, car, TV or whatever else.] Very quickly that path leads to being envious of people around you who have those things themselves. That is a dangerous path indeed, doomed to end in <strong>resentment at the world</strong> for not giving you â€˜what you deserveâ€™. That is not the sort of person anyone wants to be around!</p>
<p>Developing that habit of feeling thankful for what is around you, be it family, friends, a roof over your head or a flower in full bloom, is a wonderful antidote to the â€˜by more stuffâ€™ pressure of the Christmas season.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0713668806?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=childsinvesin-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0713668806"><img class="size-full wp-image-69 aligncenter" title="worldavillage-book" src="http://goldengoo.se/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/worldavillage-book.jpg" alt="worldavillage-book" width="108" height="160" /></a></p>
<p>A couple of years ago my brother in-law started a tradition at the Christmas table. He asks each person to take a moment and share what they have been thankful for in the past year. At first it was a little awkward and most definitely strange, but we settled in to the idea fairly quickly. Iâ€™m looking forward to it this year, though I havenâ€™t a good idea of what Iâ€™ll say just yet.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class=" ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=childsinvesin-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0713668806" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></p>
<p>Almost certainly kids around you are working hard putting the pressure on for what they want for Christmas. Our certainly are. Twilight. Barbie. Transformers. PS3. Wii. The list never seems to end. How do you combat the hundreds and thousands of advertising messages that children will be exposed to in the next few weeks?</p>
<p>That is where the gratitude attitude comes in. It is never too late to take some time with your kids to find a few things to be really thankful for. In the process you may even find a few things that could be passed on to goodwill and make someone elseâ€™s Christmas more happy.</p>
<p>One way to help put kids in a good frame of mind to realise how well-off they are is to look around the world at how little most people have. A great book that explains this (and plenty more) is <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0713668806?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=childsinvesin-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0713668806">If the World Were a Village</a><img class=" ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv ywxfevioanjxkzcuhjfv" style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=childsinvesin-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0713668806" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> &#8211; which presents the whole world as a village of just 100 people.</p>
<p>When you feel thankful for being alive, having people around you to love and be loved by, your mood takes an immediate lift. Share this with those around you!</p>
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		<title>A billion dollars in pocket money and no chores?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 02:08:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>matthew</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week&#8217;s papers carried a story that estimated Australian children are being paid one billion dollars in pocket money (allowance) each year &#8211; and they have to do very little to get it. Kids clean up in a billion-dollar industry [SMH]: AUSTRALIAN parents are spending more than $1 billion on pocket money a year but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week&#8217;s papers carried a story that estimated Australian children are being paid one billion dollars in pocket money (allowance) each year &#8211; and they have to do very little to get it.</p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://ow.ly/EoIE">Kids clean up in a billion-dollar industry</a> [SMH]: AUSTRALIAN parents are spending more than $1 billion on pocket money a year but children are expected to do far less around the house in return &#8230; experts say [chores] are important in developing life skills</p></blockquote>
<p>This story illustrates the problems when parents don&#8217;t consider <a href="http://goldengoo.se/pocket-money/philosophy/my-rambling-thoughts-article-about-the-philosphy-of-pocket-money/">the philosophy of pocket money</a>. Take the time to think and discuss your own philosophy to handing over the cash.<br />
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Curiously in the week following that article, I had two encounters with my son to do with performing housework. The first was early in the week &#8211; after a couple of loads of laundry had been done, the clean clothes were piling up on the lounge-room&#8217;s couch. Awaiting sorting and packing away by the owners. A few tense words of suggestion were aimed at Mr 12, encouraging him to do his part. The reply? A great big sigh. Fairly typical of a proto-teenager perhaps, but it didn&#8217;t go down very well as you can imagine!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/fotoosvanrobin/3092788375/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-60" style="margin: 3px 7px;" title="FriedRice" src="http://goldengoo.se/wp/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/FriedRice.jpg" alt="FriedRice" width="180" height="240" /></a>The second was a far more positive interaction. Later in the week my wife was due out at band practice, but had lost track of the time. As I arrived home, she was heading out the door having put some rice on to cook for dinner. Here&#8217;s where the fun begins : I took this as a chance to get the kids helping out in the kitchen. Quickly enough we began to pull ingredients out to see what we could make. Directing traffic, I involved both Mr 12 and Miss 9 in washing, peeling, chopping and preparing bits and pieces. The whole operation took around 20 minutes, producing an acceptable fried rice dish with bacon, chilli chipolatas, snow peas, corn, carrots and so on.</p>
<p>What really made my night was, after dinner, Mr 12 spontaneously said &#8220;that was really fun, when we were cooking!&#8221;</p>
<p>My point? Sure, pitching in with the household chores isn&#8217;t always fun, but when you get a chance to make it a communal activity it really can turn a dull chore into an opportunity for family fun (and a little bonding to boot!)</p>
<p>Sometime in the next week create an opportunity to involve the kids in a household chore. You may even all enjoy it.</p>
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